INDEPENDENT
OR NOT
We take
those of our applicants who, we assess, are likely to need some support or help
during the week on the Spring Holiday, but this can be more a matter of
guesswork rather than a rational decision.
Firstly, folk’s information about themselves
can vary according to the weather, or out of which side of the bed they had
rolled that morning. To the question
“Are you disabled?”, the answer is either yes or
no. If the applicant has little accurate
knowledge of our objectives, he may answer in the negative just because he
feels if he hides his faltering gait behind an assurance of well-being, he is
more likely to be acceptable. Whereas
another, who knows that the party is always attempting to include as many lame
dogs as possible, will explain something to the effect, “Can only walk a few
steps”, or something similar. Without
visiting everyone individually to view the true potential of every disabled
body, it is only possible to make a snap judgement of what assistance may be
required, and organise accordingly.
Sometimes, having included five or six wheelchair pushers, it is
discovered that most of those who pessimistically decided that they would need
pushing from their chalets to the dining-room, are seen to be crawling slowly
from one door to the other on sticks or crutches without waiting for someone to
collect them.
But
there can be other less obvious disabilities.
Cecily, for instance, arrived agitated and breathless, at the station,
having omitted to discover, until she had shut and locked her front door, that
she did not know where to find the railway station. After asking several strangers for
directions, she had been collected by a kindly car driver and delivered at the
gate to the platform with little more than five minutes to spare.
This
gives everyone concerned a clue about what is likely to be needed. Cicely must not be trusted to be able to
arrive on time for meals; must not be allowed out of sight when on a midweek
outing; must have her unpacking and packing done for her. Metaphorically, she must have a lead attached
to her to ensure that she does not get lost or mislaid. Even with all the best laid plans, something
gets overlooked. On the last evening,
everyone is told what to do in the morning – to pack cases; to stand them in
the doorway of the chalets so that the doors cannot slam shut and report to
breakfast at
Clearly,
such an irresponsible guest has to be protected from her faulty memory. She is just as much in need of care and
attention as are the wheelchair passengers and the partially sighted who need leading from one point to another.
Then we
have the epileptics. Outwardly as stable
and safe as most of our ambulant clientele, they are subject to sudden,
frightening attaches of loss of consciousness.
Dulcie was one such guest. She came with us regularly and, although
normally stabilised and subject to an attack only very infrequently – or so she
told us – nevertheless ‘indulged’ once during every week away with the party. One year we thought we had escaped. Dulcie had a
splendidly free week from trouble. She
participated in all the outings; danced jauntily every evening until nearly
midnight; went on rambles and shopping trips and kept alert and fit for the
whole week. It was when the train
deposited us at the home station that the incident occurred. The cars were all lined up along the exit
route from the platform. Two
“Not
surprising”, thought Maggie, standing by, waiting to offer what help might be
useful when most of the party had departed.
Then the white caps of the
Within
half-a-minute, Dulcie opened her eyes. Maggie bent over her and enquired how she
felt. The response was a blank stare,
but Dulcie, still with a ‘Dead pan’ expression on her
face, struggled to get to her feet. She
began to stagger away, but Maggie took her arm and handed her over to one of
the
The
commandeered driver was given specific instructions. The address was handed to him on a slip of
paper. He was to take Dulcie to her flat, and see that she let herself in. If she seemed capable of unlocking her front
door and walking inside her dwelling without hesitation, she would be
alright. If she made no attempt to go
inside, or seemed inclined to wander, she should not be left. Either she should be brought back to the
station or taken to hospital.
But
within twenty minutes Dulcie was back to normal. She still seemed vague and confused, but she
was pleased to be back in her flat.